Change is always good, it’s actually usually great so don’t be the downer who shy’s away from change or of the unexpected. We seem to enjoy replaying stress in our lives and sometimes this transfers to the thought of change. Why waste perfectly good energy worrying about something you may have no control over.
To all you control freaks out there, this is your chance.
I tell you it’s really an opportunity to redefine the way you react to things. If you are choosing to be scared, then you can choose to be confident.
As my gift of time ticks on, I am always reminded of how fortunate I am but the realist in me knows that the great majority of this fortune has been chosen by me. How do you choose fortune, easy…
Not only is it the obvious of not choosing to be stresses or disappointed but the topic of choosing fortune reminds me of that Hollywood movie (from a book), ‘the secret’ not going to get all hippy on you but there is relevance to the notion of positive attitudes attract positive attitudes. There are just too many stories about thinking about something or someone and then bam, the phone rings or you stumble upon what you are searching for.
If you are looking for change then the trick is to be the change you want to see. Give it a try you scaredy cat and you will be pleasantly surprized…unless you are expecting something and then all you are going to get is mad because expectations lead to anger…
Have you ever heard, ‘if you want some money, give some away’? it’s true baby, give it a test. Don’t be so ridged that you are only seeing money as a gain because if it was that easy then everyone would be doing it…
All this Monday morning message is suggesting is that you have an opportunity today and for the rest of the week that you have more than enough power to be the change you want to see.
`September is a great time for a nutrition challenge.
`September is a great time to re-evaluate your goals.
`September is a great time to start to think about next year’s goals.
`You still have time to get that book on your list.
`You still have time to get to bed early, drink more water, open a door for a stranger, eat a cleaner diet…
What the hell is holding you back? Someone to hold you accountable? Give us a call!
Maybe you are scared of the change that is happening in your relationship…express how you feel and think of that change or how you want to be a part of it or reshape that change so it can be a definition of the new you. Go ahead, get busy living and be the change you want to see.